Monday, August 29, 2011
Loving God's Word
I love the Word of God; even though there are times, it wounds me deeply. It cuts to the quick and exposes my selfish motives and desires. It is a mirror that reveals my sin, and the reflection I see is often ugly to behold. Like peeling an onion, each layer of self that is removed brings tears and pain, yet I thank God for the power of His Word and its ability to convict me of sin. Dwight L. Moody admonishes believers to: “Cling to the whole Bible, not a part of it. A man is not going to do much good with a broken sword.” General Robert E. Lee said, “The Bible is a book in comparison with which all others are of minor importance. In all my perplexities and distress the Bible never failed to give me light and strength.” II Timothy 3:16, 17 says, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.” Men of God, do not run from the Word. We have a tendency to set the Word aside when we struggle with sin because we do not enjoy being convicted. Nonetheless, if we love knowledge, we will love the instruction that comes with it; the foolish, stupid man hates reproof. Continue to dig in the Word, godly men, and allow it to convict you. “As for God, his way is perfect: the word of the Lord is tried: he is a buckler to all those that trust in him” (Psalms 18:30).
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Silence the Venom of Gossip
“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends” (Proverbs 17:9).
No one likes to be talked about or to have people gossip behind their backs. We all want to be given the benefit of the doubt, and if we have offended someone, we want him to come to us so that we can do our best to resolve the situation. Despite the fact that we want these considerations for ourselves, how often do we extend the same courtesy to others? Are we quick to spread tidbits or share “facts” that we have not bothered to confirm as truth? Do we tell talebearers that we are not interested in participating in their sin? Perhaps we do not even spread the gossip that we hear, but we encourage its telling by merely listening. The world sees nothing wrong in repeating a matter, and they usually could not care less if the information is true or not. Especially with today’s media, as long as it makes good copy or boosts ratings, then they are happy. They are not concerned that lives, marriages, and friendships can be ruined by the telling of tales. Talk shows, reality television, and the tabloids are full of gossip, half-truths, and lies and we consume tons of it daily. A godly man realizes the dangers in gossip and diligently avoids it. He understands that, “Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins” (Proverbs 10:12). “And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves, for charity shall cover the multitude of sins (I Peter 4:8). Men of God, be reconcilers and cover a transgression. Don’t be gossips, talebearers, or separators of friends.
No one likes to be talked about or to have people gossip behind their backs. We all want to be given the benefit of the doubt, and if we have offended someone, we want him to come to us so that we can do our best to resolve the situation. Despite the fact that we want these considerations for ourselves, how often do we extend the same courtesy to others? Are we quick to spread tidbits or share “facts” that we have not bothered to confirm as truth? Do we tell talebearers that we are not interested in participating in their sin? Perhaps we do not even spread the gossip that we hear, but we encourage its telling by merely listening. The world sees nothing wrong in repeating a matter, and they usually could not care less if the information is true or not. Especially with today’s media, as long as it makes good copy or boosts ratings, then they are happy. They are not concerned that lives, marriages, and friendships can be ruined by the telling of tales. Talk shows, reality television, and the tabloids are full of gossip, half-truths, and lies and we consume tons of it daily. A godly man realizes the dangers in gossip and diligently avoids it. He understands that, “Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins” (Proverbs 10:12). “And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves, for charity shall cover the multitude of sins (I Peter 4:8). Men of God, be reconcilers and cover a transgression. Don’t be gossips, talebearers, or separators of friends.
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Who's Influencing You?
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed” (Proverbs 13:20).
When one of my brothers was a teenager, my parents tried to get him to understand the correlation between the friends he had chosen and the trouble that inevitably found him. He was not willing to give up these friends until he matured to the point where he could weigh the pros and cons of their friendship. He eventually realized that the cost for their friendship was too high a price to pay. For better or worse, the people we hang around influence us. During my freshman year of college, I received a care package from home. I eagerly tore into the box to find soap, shampoo, and my favorite cookies. I greedily stuffed two cookies in my mouth and immediately spit them out. They tasted like soap! The close proximity between the cookies and soap had cross-contaminated them. The cookies absorbed the pungent fragrance of the soap to the extent that it had lost its own uniqueness. When we walk with wise men, they will invariably rub off on us. Similarly, if we walk with fools, they will negatively influence us and eventually overpower us. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners” (I Corinthians 15:33). We can be in the world, intentionally witnessing to those around us, loving the lost with the love of God and still be separate. Jesus ministered to the sinners and publicans, but hand-chose his inner circle. We should follow the same example.
When one of my brothers was a teenager, my parents tried to get him to understand the correlation between the friends he had chosen and the trouble that inevitably found him. He was not willing to give up these friends until he matured to the point where he could weigh the pros and cons of their friendship. He eventually realized that the cost for their friendship was too high a price to pay. For better or worse, the people we hang around influence us. During my freshman year of college, I received a care package from home. I eagerly tore into the box to find soap, shampoo, and my favorite cookies. I greedily stuffed two cookies in my mouth and immediately spit them out. They tasted like soap! The close proximity between the cookies and soap had cross-contaminated them. The cookies absorbed the pungent fragrance of the soap to the extent that it had lost its own uniqueness. When we walk with wise men, they will invariably rub off on us. Similarly, if we walk with fools, they will negatively influence us and eventually overpower us. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners” (I Corinthians 15:33). We can be in the world, intentionally witnessing to those around us, loving the lost with the love of God and still be separate. Jesus ministered to the sinners and publicans, but hand-chose his inner circle. We should follow the same example.
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